Unfortunately, (actually VERY fortunately) I have my two boys to look after and we have no babysitter (never have and that is one of the BIG problems in our R). I will have a good time with them and then watch 24. It's not the fun part I struggle with, it's the WTF is she doing this to me for (yes, I KNOW it's not about me)! I have to breathe and avoid the usual conversations that ensue when she does this. I know that. I just feel like telling her to go take a flying you-know-what when she does this. It's an old broken record from me and I need to get over it. I really do. Thanks for the encouragement!