Thanks. I think it was fine, but who knows...or cares at this point. I am back to where I don't really care too much. NYS, I really wish it was as easy as stepping off, I REALLY do. I was great last night and in the dumps this morning for no real reason. I guess this is all part of the same lesson. I guess I have to learn that it's not coming back (the R) and the more I give myself any hope it will, the more little heartbreaks I will suffer daily. I think a big theme around here is not setting expectations. I don't know if expectations is the right word for it. It's not like I expect her to wake up and say "honey, I was so wrong and I love you. Let's make this work." but I surely HOPE she does. Is that the same thing? Maybe I need to HOPE for less. When I read Divorce Remedy last night (some of it) it talked a lot about setting small relationship goals, something I have not really done. I don't even know what they would be at this point because most everything in our R is damaged. You would think it would be easy to find goals in that case. So, my goal for today is to set some clear goals for myself to accomplish some clear R goals. One last question, isn't setting R goals, or finding things you would like to see changed in the R the same as setting expectations?
