You know what TMu in my opinion what you did by kissing her on the head, and just walking away just shows you still care! I personally think that is a good thing in sitch. People out there may disagree, but I still think you have to keep that thread alive that you still care about her. In my opinion you did it perfect, the problem I do and have done I take it to excess, or worse yet my W responds positively and I jump in like the SWAT team and scare her off!
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1