Quote: Truthfully, I am just not a "going out" kinda guy. I like romantic nights at home. That said, I did tell the W that I may go out tonight but for me I kinda think it backfires, all these 180's, because I think SHE thinks I am only doing it to get to her. TMU
TMU I am the same way! (maybe we are long lost twins are you 6'3 250 and born in Canada?) I love spending quit evenings at home. The thing of it is once my wife were on the path of "reconciliation" we did something we never did...Date Nite! It was good to get out in the middle of the week just to talk and reconnect! It was going great and then...well you know what happened! Looking at your comment you need to do something different and explore life a little! I did that when I was on my own and it was fun! My W took notice, and I am planning to do that again with or without the W! I hope we can re-establish date nite soon and that is one of my goals! Remember tryingsomething new in regards to the 180 or your R takes time, and time to evalate the results! Patience my friend, and I would just go out and do things!
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
