I did tell the W that I may go out tonight but for me I kinda think it backfires, all these 180's, because I think SHE thinks I am only doing it to get to her. If I have to explain that it's really for ME then the effect is lost, no?
What "backfire", what "effect"? You just said it's for you, so why are you wondering if telling her so will have it lose its "effect" on her and that it appears to be "backfiring"? Hmmmm, methinks you gave away your hand here.
That suggests that you're not really doing it for you, my friend.
and I don't want to be a 3rd wheel. Truthfully, I am just not a "going out" kinda guy. I like romantic nights at home.
Maybe we can arrange a poker night. I think it would be profitable.
there was one time I felt like a "third wheel" while I was out, so I called it a night. maybe I should've stayed. Why should I make myself uncomfortable when there really was nothing to be uncomfortable about?
"Romantic nights at home" may be what you prefer. What did you use to do before you had anyone to have romantic nights at home with? Maybe I shouldn't ask! Or maybe I can ask, but you shouldn't answer!
all I find my self wanting to do is actually tell her what I put in my letter on the "I'm your WAS..." thread!
That's some thread! IOW, Hey LBSs, think of what makes you so sad and angry and hurt so you can post it here! Howzabout a thread on "What I Did For Myself That Was Constructive Today!"
