Um, Tim, that's good advice but it's even worse than not going out much for me. All the friends we used to go out with are either not friends anymore or married and I don't want to be a 3rd wheel. Truthfully, I am just not a "going out" kinda guy. I like romantic nights at home. That said, I did tell the W that I may go out tonight but for me I kinda think it backfires, all these 180's, because I think SHE thinks I am only doing it to get to her. If I have to explain that it's really for ME then the effect is lost, no? Anyway, I am going to do SOMETHING fun tonight. Dunno what yet, and dunno if it will be out or in. Thanks for the support. I am trying to be strong. Actually I may be a little TOO strong right now because all I find my self wanting to do is actually tell her what I put in my letter on the "I'm your WAS..." thread! Must.....resist.....at.....all......costs!
