TMU be strong! All she is doing is looking for excuses to blaim you for what she is doing! Trust me! You are soing awesome! Her guilt is getting the best of her and to justify what she is doing to you she is trying to think you are spying on her and being sneaky! My wife did the same thing when we were seperated. She admitted it when we were being truthful and honest in our supposed reconciliation! Take a deep breath. Go for another run. I know it is hard, but take the high road and be the bigger person and don't buy into her crap! Remember how we said we manipulate and control...well my friend our wifes took notes and are using back on us! It will pass! I know you want to confront her and call her out but that is what she wants so she can justify getting closer to the OM! Stop giving her bullets! Remeber your goals and stay on-line since it sounds like you and I have nothing better to do tonite!
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1