Our lives are way to similar I finally read your posting this morning about bath time with the kids, and watching Dancing with the Stars with W! Did the exact same thing except I worked out at lunch! Anyways I have analyzed my past to death, and you are right going thru what we are going thru right now it makes things clearer about what happened in the past! I asked myself one day the question when I would deal with a problem employee at work "Would I hire the person again knowing what I know now" if yes I would do what I could to make him a better person and aultimately a better contributor to the company! Not to treat my R and W as a business transaction but I asked myself "Would I marry my wife again today knowing what I do now?" and I said a big fat YES! Many reasos why but that cemented my commitment to working things out, and trying to build myself, and assist my wife in being a better person and ultimately a better Marriage!
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
