Well, I did think of something and posted it in Tim's thread about my W. I asked my C about this yesterday and she really didn't have much to say. This is that my W has never really been one to say ILY. Sure, on birthday cards and such, but live, in living color, she just never has. Also, she has never taken to saying "ours" or "us" rather she'll say, even to me, could you bring the iron down from my room? or Yea, why don't you come over to my house tomorrow? I have mentioned this to her before and she just blew it off saying it meant nothing. It may not, but right about now, everything in our past is starting to mean something. Any ideas other than the obvious that she's very self-centered?
So I just talked to her on the cell (she called) and got on with the small talk about the bank balance, etc. The conversation was light and nice. After that I asked her if she had plans for the weekend (maybe the wrong thing to do). She said she had no plans...until Monday...Ouch. That still hurt. So it may be an OM free weekend, or she may just sneak around to see him. Anyway, I am now going to start not focusing on him and it. I am having trouble so far.
