YOu are right I do not want to feel pity! The tough thing is what is the reponse when the souse says: ARE YOU OK? I have diferent views. I agree you can't start crying and going on about how much you hurt, but I can only act as if nothing is werong for so long. I know in my Sith that my W says it sometimes to start the conversation about how she is feeling, so I don't want to ignore that either. I feel that you have to be true to how you are feeling and then throw a little ACt as if in there: W: Are you Ok? me: I am still hurting but I am trying to mve forward and be the best person I can be today.
I don't know if that sounds good or not....truthfully I haven't tried it yet but it sounds good in my head?????
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
