Interesting concepts on the lack of R talk over the years. I thought about my WAW and I, and we did have many R talks in the early and mid years of our 13 years together, and we seemed to have kept things at an even keel. But after the kids (2001+), the R talk stopped. We just existed, I thought happily. Little did I know that W was going through the mid to final stages of the WAW syndrome.
So I guess it might be good, while things seem okay in your relationship, to talk about how things are going. Keep batteries in the marital barometer. A lesson I learned all too late.
