TMU,
You and I must be made from the same cloth.
My heart and soul are so broken right now. My husband once again told me that he is no longer in love with me and is no longer attracted to me. He says for me not to change because I am a great person as well as a wonderful mom. He says he has been trying for years (unbeknown to me) and he just drifted away. He wants to stay living here because of our children (and because we are so indebt that he can't afford to leave). But his mind is made up, there is nothing to work on. I'm sitting here feeling sorry for myself with my credit card in my hand ready to call a DB coach (even though I can't afford it) when he calls to tell me he is on his way home and he will pick up the kids from school for me. I was very sweet and thankful - I have never met any of his friends that he goes out drinking with so I asked him if he would like to invite them over on Sunday to watch the Bears game and I would make appetizers and he says, no I just want to be with my family. I always hated amusement parks as the rides made me nausous, can I get off this roller coaster now? Patience Girl!!!