Actually, hindsight is, in this case, panic mode. She never said a word. She acted fine when she got back from the store so I have NO clue what she thought...and I'm not gonna find out unless she tells me on her own. I guess this is all part of letting go control. I cannot try to predict or mind read my wife. Lesson learned. Maybe it will still be bad, but what I had in my head was obviously not the case.