TMU, I really hope things work out for you, you seem to be in such a better place today than yesterday.
As for me, I have really been trying to detach. When my H stayed out all night last Saturday, after a heated discussion, he promised me he was not going to go out anymore. Well he just called to say he would be late tonight cause he is going out with "the guys" for some beers. Wow, he couldn't even last 3 f-ing days. And maybe that is exactly what he is doing and normally I would not have a problem with it, but since he has broken my trust and not committed to our marriage I am once again angry, hurt and suspicious.
I really must get a life!!