Me-35 Her-36. We have been together for about 10 years, married for 8.
As for the anger/resentment, yea, I figure I will start to get that way depending on how things go, but I am going to do my best to not let that rule my life or influence my decisions. I am finding that so long as I remember the path and check every once in awhile to remind myself of what the path is, then I'm ok. Also, knowing I get to go back to see my therapist gives me cause to stick it out. I really hope she can help with the issues (mainly low self esteem and it's related control issues) I have identified in me that have caused me to behave irrationally for many, many years, if not all my life. I think this will not only give me a new lease on being happy in life, but also be the most severe 180 I could ever do. I really think that if I was happy with myself and not constantly trying to control situations so that I'm comfortable in them, my family would survive this crisis. That said, I cannot control her and I can only hope she notices that I am now able to be in our relationship as a passenger, not as the captain.
