Hope, I couldn't agree with you more. My H has told me that he is not involved with her anymore. (Yea, right...) Again, he does love me just not in the way that I want him to...so he tells me this so as not to hurt me and probably so he can continue seeing her. Anyway, talk is cheap and actions speak louder than words. For me to really believe things are over between them it would not be from anything he says - I would know where he is at at all times, he would no longer go out at night (sometimes all night) without me, he would call me from work just to say hi, etc.
...just when the caterpillar thought the world was over, it became a butterfly...(printed on the front of my journal)