My wife still lives with me and our s5 & s3. She has no plans of ever changing that or so she says. I may have other ideas about that...
Anyway, I really think this is a time when I need to make my own decisions. I have the info from everyone here, and I don't mean AT ALL to diminish the advice I have gotten but I can't live like this. I am not going to set any ultimatums, or with any luck at all, get confrontational. I simply want to encourage her to pursue this thing without all the sneaking around. If she wants to sow her oats, then go sow them. If she needs time to figure things out, then do that. One of the things she never said in her initial confession of these feelings and her affair was that she needed to continue to lie to me. She said she was tired of lying so we need to just stop the games, the lies and get this thing to a place where I can start to deal with it in reality, not in my head. Thoughts?
