Put up the stop sign!!! If it makes you feel any better I don't know anything about OW either except for her name, cell phone #(snooping) and that she is a co-worker of his. To tell you the truth I don't want to know as it would just hurt me even more. Her and I do not have a relationship or commitment to eachother, therefore I don't care about her. My H is the only person I care about. Right now we are both doing a bad job of DB'ing. So whenever you feel like you are going to backslide - come here and do it.
Let me ask you, does your wife still live with you?
