I really am trying not to project anything damaging! I know that is what hurt my stitch when we were in Mexico. I projected negativity, animosity, and talked about the OM on our romantic holiday....and look what happened when I got back! She got right on the phone to the OM and is starting to re-establish her relationship! I can't change what has happened so I need to learn from it and move forward by being positive and not project any more negativity! (Which by the way is very hard) I to hope that my W is not going thru the motions to make me happy, and I truly believe she is! IS this good or bad I am not sure. It does show she is sensitive to my feelings, but I do not like the uncertain feeling in the house right now! I did forget to tell you that my W is under alot of stress from school so that also factors into her actions and behaviors!
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
