I am doing the same thing and trying not to talk about the OM! I have kept it up for 3 long hard days, and as I said in my own posting it feels like there is a big "pink" elephant in the room and both of us deny seeing even though it is standing right under our noses! No advice except I can tell you that I am tryig not to acknowledge the OM at all, and let my wife sort things out! One thing I realized earli on in my Seperation when I went over an old journal last nite is that my wife finds me more attractive when I am happy, positive, and upbeat! So that is what I am doing. Is it alittle acting yes! But sometimes you hav to act as if nothing is wrong and you are going on with life to add some mystery and intrique to your W! That is what I am doing! Stay in touch and hopefully I will have a success story soon!
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
