Unique situation? Where we are now...

[Tim297181]

I know I can't continue to dwell on the A or the chance that the affair is continuing with the OM currently, but it does occupy my thoughts 99.9999999% of the time! But like you said you can't keep asking about it to our spouse! I am really going to try and "Act as if" things are going good, and not react to the OM or strange calls unless she brings it up! I am going to stay on the course of killing her with kindness and still remain loving and passionate about her, and respect her space! Who knows but she is still responding to me, but I think she is waiting for me to attack her about the OM. I am not going to and I will let her come to me about it. Very hard because I think she is not wearing her new wedding rings anymore, and I know she is contact with the OM! All I can say is patience!