I know I'm new at this but in my opinion you never give up. If you give up what were you fighting for in the first place. I hope my marriage never ends in D but if it does (against my will) the door will always be open for my H to walk back in at any time. My love for him is too all-comsuning for it to be any other way.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15