What now-did what I was supposed to!

[Tim297181]

Flaneur thanx for the hugs! back at you!
Any advice is good advice it is what you do with it! Everyones opinion is correct it is up to the individual to decide if they agree or disagree....I guess what I am trying to say is I would love any input from you (or anybody) because that is why I am on this message board.
Well another update in my day!
Hope those of you that have read my stitch will get something positive from the results I got today becasue the path I have choosen paid some small dividends today!

Came home and the W asked how the doctor appointment went. Told her it went great and he gave me a new medication to help me sleep. She asked why and asked if I told him what was going on! (This is the first time since Sat that the subject has even closely been discussed by both of us)
Long story short she got defensive and cold right away! You were right Flaneur!
Anyways she then got ready to go to her council session. Gave me a kiss, and I told her I love her, but she left without her wedding rings on! Anyways when she got home she gave the kids a kiss and came over and gave me a kiss! Nice! Seemed in a better mood so i asked how it went. Her response was
"It went well....the therapist thinks I am confused.....I am just not ready to talk right now so if you can give me some time and space because I don't want to cry" This was not a negative comment towards me but reading between the lines is she has to deal with the OM and needs her space!
So I said no problem and I am here for when she is ready. We had dinner talked a little more, gave her a hug and kiss! She said she just needs some time with no pressure from me, and that she knows I have been doing that for that last few days! Nice again!
The last thing was she came home with some literature from the councilor about alcoholics, and what effect they have on a persons life...Addictive behaviors! That is because the OM is an alcoholic.
Enough from me I just needed to type and get some of this off my chest! the bottom line is I am seeing some positive results from the path I have choosen so I hope others who can relate will get something from this!