Sorry it took me so long to catch up but now that I did...((((((((((Tim)))))))). You've gottten some good advice here- especially from the men. It's nice for you to get their perspective as I believe it's a little different for the LBH than the LBW. On the other hand, you should try to read Piglet 2's posts as I believe at one point she was the WAS that had an affair. Don't know what advice I can offer and it doesn't seem to be agreeable to people when I do offer it so I'm just going give you another hug. (((((((((((Tim)))))))))))
Oh, I know, one thing.... try not to talk to MC or family doctor about situation. If I was your wife and found out, I'd be po'd. I actually didn't ever tell anybody about the A (well I told three close friends just before I moved and my in-laws). My parents still don't know and I think it made it easier for H to return because of this.
