What now-did what I was supposed to!

[Tim297181]

Just had a weird afternoon?!?!
I called our marriage councilor to confirn our appointment for tonite (the plan is my wife to attend alone - to hopefully deal with the OM issues) Anyways she called me back and wanted to know what was happening. I gave her a quick rundown on what has transpired since our last session and she can't believe that my W is still in contact with the OM. I told her that she took his call right in front of me at a kids birthday party and can't believe it! Long story short she told me to stay the course and not bring up the OM at all. She respects how I have handled it so far and not to burn out. Stay positive and upbeat and hopefully something positive will arise after tonite??!!?
Then I went to our family doctor for a follow-up on my anxiety and sleep problems. He knows the whole story since m wife and I both go to him and he can't believe what she is doing either! HIs reaction was the same as our councilor.
So a little validation in what I am trying to do, but no real impact on the situation as of yet! It is nice to have others support your efforts and as said in the previous posting truly "respect" your efforts. But the bottom line is the only person that I want to truly respect my efforts in the end is my wife!!