It sucks to be in the middle of one of the most paralyzing situations of our lives and be faced with so many contrary theories.
I agree. I guess the way I look at it is all our situations are different. True, many of these WAS’s will say and do the same exact things, but there are still enough pieces to each of our relationships that make them unique. Hence, what works for one LBS may not work for the next. I try to keep that in mind when I’m thinking about what I should or should not do.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
