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[Tim297181]

Thanx totally,
WE are left to our own devices! Life is about making choices, and we can only do the best we can with the skills we have at that moment in time!
I am not sure what the answers are and if we all did, this message board would never exist. WE have to learn from everyones situtation and realize that everyone is entitled to their opinions whether they concur with your beliefs or not! The key is to have an open mind and heart and keep hope alive that we all can find happiness. And that is what this message board is for, to help all of us keep hope alive that there maybe a solution to our problem is just around the corner and happiness will follow!
In my situation we started to find happiness and solitude but it started to slip away again. I do not want to put myself, my wife, and especially my kids thru the pain we all felt before! So I will do everything in my power to avoid that! I also want to remain true to myself ad remain positive and always look that the glass is half full! It is tough when so many signs are there that the R is going in the wrong direction, like my W calling the OM! I know deep down she knows that it is wrong and that we can build an amazing marriage and R together!
Keep going totallymessedup and we can continue to share our feelings and help each other thru this tough time! I know that every message that gets posted helps!