What now-did what I was supposed to!

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I have asked her what her intentions are with the OM. All she said she knows she still has feelings for him, and she loves him, and is not sure what do. When we had supper the other nite she left it as ,she needs some time to think things thru but wanted to contact the OM which she obviously has several times!
She is planning to go to our councilling session alone tonite which I believe is good! Hopefully she can talk some things out and open up tonite. I will not push her to talk except ask if she wants to share anything.
You are right I cannot assume anything and I should just ask. I am trying to give her space, but I do feel like everytime we are in a room together there is a huge "pink" elephant standing there and we both are afraid to say we see it. The day will come very soon when the "pink" elephant will have to be dealt with!
By the way she left the house this morning with her wedding rings on!