Quote: I also know I am over analyzing the situation but I think she is setting the OM to possibly leave me again???? I sure hope not!
Are you familiar with the book 'The Four Agreements'?
They are:
-- Be impeccable with your word. Never use your word to hurt someone.
-- Don't take other peoples actions personally. Other people are living in their own dream and thier actions are part of that dream and not meant for you.
-- Never make assumptions. If you want to know something. Ask.
-- Always do your best. Sometimes your best will be different than other times depending how you feel. But it will always BE your best
So, ask her what intentions she has with the other man. Tell her that if she feels like she is going back to him or whatever that you'd like to know so you plan your life accordingly without her. Come from a place of understanding, not accusation.
