What is your definition of a 'perfect' husband? Have you been doing this to make her happy? or have you been doing things to not make her mad?



That is a very intersting question? I believe I have been doing more things not to make her mad. Like not bringing up the OM and keeping a happy face on.
I have done (in my opinion) alot to mae her happy:
Back massages
cooking dinner
leaving notes (a little to often maybe)
getting the kids out of her hair
cooking breakfast
going on a vacation (which we never did)

Maybe I am doing to many superficial things to make her happy and not finding the true meaning of her happiness? Any suggestions?

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