Thanx Frank, That is a brave thing to do but I have thought about it alot! I am a little afraid to do it right now, and the reason for it is for 2 reasons: 1. We just got back from holidays and this just started again (or should I say contiuned) and it may blow by 2. She has aked me several times after I found she called the OM why I am putting up with this, and when is enough enough. Almost asking me to end it with her so she would not feel guilty!
If I did become cold and distant she defintely would notice because it is a such a departure from the way I have been towards her. I am very attentive and loving towards her since she moved back in, and cold and distant would be like repeating an old pattern! I don't want to give her any more justification to what she is doing! I also do not want to let her feel she can is walking all over me! Also I want to be true to myself and being cold and distant is not me, but it amybe what I need????
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
