Quote: Any advice on saying anything about the rings or the phone call from the OM yesterday?
If you withdraw and detach will she say anything to you about being 'cold and distant'? If so, then reply 'I can only be strong in the face of you continuing your affair with OM for so long before I have to take some time to heal myself, so please give me some space to build up my energy again'
When I said that to W a while back she was shocked that I mentioned the affair and that I was actually 'hurt' by her actions since I was DB'ing and all seemed fine (to her). I stayed nice and polite but kept my distance. She eventually started to seek me out and invite me to do things with her. In my case it lasted about a week till she got frustrated she couldn't go see OM.
