Quote: Why ruin the moment with a confrontation of any sort...let it go...I know it hurts, I know you ache but you just saw a baby step...do you want to lose that and push her right out the door?
I do not want to push her out the door and we have been thru too much to stop! I love her deeply and the kids are so much better having both their parents in their life every day! I know my wife very well and I know she is going to see the OM today! It hurt so much! These baby steps forward are very tough becasue only a few weeks ago we were in full reconciliation (or so I thought)! I feel she is "playing" me a little bit and getr away with what she is doing without consequenses because she has told me she wants to contact the OM and that I have been trying to be the "perfect" husband. My struggle is how to get her to notice me instead of the OM? Do I do something completely different or do I become cold and distant?
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
