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I feel I need to say or do something! Confront her on the phone call yesterday, not wearing the rings, the possibility of them having lunch....just sitting here and pretending nothing is wrong is really hard! Any advice out there?




I think perhaps looking at the baby step you received this am. You did an "As if" You acted as though everything was okay by hugging your W and you received back in return, I love you...again you can assume the hug was stressed, but again that is assuming...and did you not receive a positive acknowledgement from her. She received a hug, an assurance from you of your love and affection and in return you received those 3 magical words that we all long to hear. Why ruin the moment with a confrontation of any sort...let it go...I know it hurts, I know you ache but you just saw a baby step...do you want to lose that and push her right out the door?



love, laughter and friendship, Lisa