First of all sorry for my last post it seemed to go up several times! I did say what you eluded to NY when I found it she called him only 2 days after our trip to MExico! The next day I thought about it and apologized because I felt I the way it came out in the heat of the moment was not right and was only thinking of myself and not her feelings! Also in Mexico I had real anxiety because she was not interested in sex, and seemed a little distant! I was analyzing way too much and was thinking she was only thinking about the OM, but she said she was distant because of my expectations for sex on our "romantic" holiday! (It was great and relaxing but I did pressure her for sex) This is part of the reason she said she called also becasue she felt we were falling into old patterns!
Tim
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