Quote: though I don't understand why it's to be presented in the form of a letter. I get the feeling these relationship-gurus used to be English teachers.
I was using the CONTENT of a Dobson letter as an example of how to possible frame it in your mind. DOn't write a lettter. I think I shouldn't write these responses so early in the morning.
ALso, in the case of Tim, only he knows what will work. Since he added some details I think that a simple offer to let her go spend time away with OM to sort it out' may be enough.
