Here's the question though...at what point do you force that issue of pushing to be with the OM? it seems to me that would be more of a last resort than anything else. My situation is fairly new and if I sound naive, plesae forgive me.
"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu
