The tough thing is we started to recouncil and really open upabout her affair. I know so much now and it seems like she is a ping pong ball and I am just the paddle that keeps it going! I feel like telling her to make a decision and stick with it regardless of the consequence so we all can get on with life including the OM!
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1