Until all contact has ended, you have no relationship. Do you ever talk to the other man's live-in? I havn't for about 6 months. They don't live together so she wouldn't know where he is all the time. I know I am putting a lot of faith into this, but what else can I do. I do expect her to be accountable for where she is at all times. And she always tells me where she is and with who. But is it foolproof? Not even close. But how can I make it without being an unattractive nag?
I know I am far off from good sex, but I feel that sex is a very important part of a marriage. Without it, there is no marriage. I think it would be a good way to be close to each other. And when I say sex, I mean anything physical. Not just intercourse. I am not just looking to get laid, although the thought crosses my mind. Fortunately only a couple times a minute. Other than that, I never think about it. Its high school all over again.
