I am not 100% convinced that contact has completely ended. She has many good opportunities to contact him that are impossible for me to find out. I guess I am trusting her a little eventhough she hasn't earned it.
I have read "Surviving An Affair" by Dr. Willard Harley about 16 times. Good book, great advice, but of course life isn't textbook so I take what I can from it. The others I have not read. I was getting annoyed with self-help books for a while because they all said different things. I was going to pick up Michelle's book "Sex-Starved Marriage". Not sure if my situation fits.
