How long had the affair been going on when you found out Nov 2004? PA - 9 months, EA - 14 months
Did she live with him up until last Sept? I think I read that the OM was a good friend of your's. Wow, good memory, or good research. She did not live with him at all.
Was he single? No, he was common law with someone. They have 2 small kids as well. The day after the bomb fell, he moved out.
Are you able to speak to him at all? I have on occasions. Fortunately I havn't seen him at all.
Is she back home to work on the M or because she needed a place to live? She is back becasue she can't bear to be away from the kids. Raising them half time is not what she wants at all.
What were the arrangements with the kids during all of this? The kids stayed in the house and every couple of days, my W and I would trade off staying there. When I wasn't there, I was at my parent's house. When she wasn't there, she stayed with friends, family and, unfortunately, with OM.
You can read about it all when my book gets published.
