Wow, Surviving, I feel so bad for you. How long had the affair been going on when you found out Nov 2004? A year? Did she live with him up until last Sept? I think I read that the OM was a good friend of your's. Was he single? Are you able to speak to him at all? Is she back home to work on the M or because she needed a place to live? I have so many questions! What were the arrangements with the kids during all of this?

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