The affair is over because the OM ended it and left town.
I am almost prepared to do anything, unfortunately that includes divorce.
Wait? I am not sure. I have waited about 4 months since she came home.
Do you mean addressed it here? Not sure. Only recently started seeing it as possibly a major problem. Up until that point I assumed things would get better, because everything else is.
Counselling, starting next week. I have been going on my own for about 5 months.