The affair is over because the OM ended it and left town.

I am almost prepared to do anything, unfortunately that includes divorce.

Wait? I am not sure. I have waited about 4 months since she came home.

Do you mean addressed it here? Not sure. Only recently started seeing it as possibly a major problem. Up until that point I assumed things would get better, because everything else is.

Counselling, starting next week. I have been going on my own for about 5 months.

We have 3 kids under 5.