HP wrote:
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It all seems like such a pointless waste. The "lost" years, I mean.
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We feel the same way some days. I am glad for you that you learned your lessons a couple of decades ahead of where we learned ours. You now have skills that will serve you for a lifetime. Just practice using them on a regular basis. A marriage requires routine maintenance.

All the best,
-NOPkins-


I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.