HP wrote: --------------------------------------- It all seems like such a pointless waste. The "lost" years, I mean. ---------------------------------------
We feel the same way some days. I am glad for you that you learned your lessons a couple of decades ahead of where we learned ours. You now have skills that will serve you for a lifetime. Just practice using them on a regular basis. A marriage requires routine maintenance.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.