Hi, HP.

Yep, normal.

Just be careful that you only accept your portion of the blame. Hubby is at fault for not holding up his part of the marriage also.

Do you remember the discussion about blame a while back. You have to be very careful that you don't take on more fault than is yours to take. The rebound from such an action can be just as bad and lead to resentment as well.

Both of you have made mistakes that injured the relationship.

Both of you are on the steep discovery curve about your relationship right now. Expect it to be a bit of a ride and you will fare well

You are doing fine.

-NOPkins-


I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.