Keep up the positive interactions with H. One of the things I found worked, and even confounded SO, was all of the positive interactions.
I distinctly recall a phone convo we had when he was involved with OW2 during our separation. He was very angry and agitated and kind of taking it out on me. I pushed the envelop a little bit b/c I couldn't understand what I had done for him to be so angry at me. He finally admitted that he "wanted me but couldn't have me [b/c of the obligation he had to OW2]". When he admitted that, I thanked him for being honest and up-front with me.
Interesting how karma works things out, eh? Just keep the positive flow going and make him see how there's no one better out there, k?
