Speaking of drinking...the key would be to have a few drinks together! Get them to let their guard down and see where it goes I tried this w my H on our anniversary, we opened a bottle of wine a friend gave me for Christmas. He drank his glass down so quickly he couldn't have enjoyed it...guess he didn't want to stick around for the effects to kick in, but he did hug me before he left (yes he only had 1 glass so he was safe to drive).