WCW I asked you some questions in my thread. Like I said there I've got lots of ideas. Lets figure out what you need to do. Hopefulmommy and Nicole are giving you great advise. Particularly looking to Nicole, I would like to second what she has to say. If you walk on egg shells and give him space and "let him go" that's what will likely happen. I am not suggesting that rejection won't hurt, but would you rather be turned down on the little things today, or have him move out in a few months? Turst me I would do anything to still have my H at home. Answer these questions What are the things that you have been in charge of? What kind of guy is/was he? I'll check back soon