You're seeing it...great...because as a woman, let me tell you there is nothing attractive about a man who is pleading, begging and suffocating...of course that is not attractive for either sex but for a man, never...I don't care what women may say publically or to their GFs but deep down we really want our men to be strong for us...we depend on you emotionally and physically, more than you will ever know. Women admittedly, may be a bit more complicated to figure out then men are but deep down, I think it just boils down to everyone has the basic need of being loved...
And see how she has already picked up on it...keep with it...find the man that she fell in love with...I bet he wasn't begging and pleading? Was he...nah, he was someone else. Her knight in shining armour.
Knight in shinning armour....I have been the one who has picked up the pieces and been there for even when she was upset about the OM. I have to admitt I have been needy and pleading to her also, but overall I have been the guy to support her and help her do what she wants in life. The OM in my opinion has been needy and has done nothing to help her thru life except have great sex and listen to her when she complained about me! So what do nice guys do in this situation when it feels like a someone is taking advantage of the situation?
Tim
my story http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=1049617&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=1&vc=1
