I must say, I agree with the 2x4 as well....we all love ya. You've come so far, overcome so much as a couple and are an insipiration to many here....including myself.
SOOOO....the directive to you....don't look at the blogs anymore. What do you care? If you stop that, I can guarantee, within a short amount of time, you'll stop analyzing or caring what OW2's fate is. Simply, it's not in your hands, so why bother. Be a little selfish now, you have a lot on your plate. We would all like the world to be right and fair, for karma to tally the scores evenly...trust that it will, in good time. Trust that and don't look at blogs anymore. Just see what you have with SO NOW...and take solace and work on that.
BTW...I'm not dispensing this advice from a soap box...I too am QUITE vulnerable to looking, snooping. It's this horrible lure....I made a promise not to and have not since then, and feel so good. The temptation has been there all in the name of taking care of me and finding out the truth. BUT, like W2S posted on my thread, would it change your plans? No, so, trust that what SO did then was in the past, in his time of fog. Now, work on figuring out if you can accept his actions in the fog.
So OW2 is a loser...we all knew that. You're not, and that is why SO is with you.
